Hi, I'm Andoni Silva.
"Everything started when I was 8 years old and had to move to a new city. Since that age I'd shape my life and build a successful career trying to find the acceptance I never had as a kid.
20 years later, I was on the top of the world, but deep inside I felt miserable, unfulfilled, extremely unhappy. I felt completely lost".
I'm a little kid, 8 years old, who recently got a surgery in the peritoneum.
And I'm here, in our new home on the island of Mallorca.
I go out to the balcony for the first time.
I look to the side and I see two kids of my own age.
They start laughing at me and...wait, they are throwing wet toilet paper at me.
Even at school, they all speak Catalan, a language I can't understand. They don't even know how to pronounce my name properly. So they change my name.
From now on I'll be "Toni".
I feel naked, completely vulnerable.
I feel as I'd never fit it. I feel completely UNACCEPTED.
From that very moment, and subconsciously, without being aware, I created a life in a desperate search of the love, the approval and the recognition from others.
Twenty years later I was hired for my dreamed job. My life seems to be simply perfect.
For everyone else it looked like the perfect life.
But not for me.
I'm wearing a suite and tie and everyone is so proud of me.
My parents are telling everyone about the job I'm doing.
Everyone seems to admire me. My status and my income are multiplied.
I'm the lover of the most beautiful woman in the office.
Everybody knows me and I feel finally got that recognition I was looking for.
I'm the Digital Marketing Director for one of the biggest companies in the country.
However, on the inside...
I'm struggling. A lot. I'm going through a lot of emotional pain.
I'll recognise it. I'm addicted to cannabis, alcohol and sex.
I'm in love with a married woman and we have an extramarital toxic relationship.
I'm working up to 70 hours a week and letting my job control me.
I'm having sleepless nights -too many-, and stress and anxiety.
I've created a life looking for acceptance and driven by FEAR.
Everything starts to change when I decide to...
Walk 400 km completely alone in 22 days.
I'm walking for 20 days, and finally, I see the ocean.
I can't contain my tears. I'm alone and crying like a kid.
I feel so thrilled. After 20 days suffering, with my ankle sprained from day three, I'm about to reach the end.
I have a sensation as I never had before.
I feel empowered.
I feel a deep connection with my inner greatness.
I need to look for more. Life can't be just success on the outside.
After that big lesson, I start to become more self-aware and start my search for fulfilment beyond success.
I'm travelling to India where I'm going to spend 1 month.
This trip has shifted me. I feel different.
I see the greatness in people's smile.
I see the happiness in places where I learned there could not be happiness.
I'm becoming more and more aware.
And my searching for more kick off.
I discover meditation and yoga and start practising.
I study hundreds of books of ancient spiritual knowledge, psychology, success and happiness.
I feel so inspired by people like Robin Sharma, Napoleon Hill, Dalai Lama, Gourdjieff, Krishnamurti, Joe Dispenza, Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield as also many other Thought Leaders and History Makers.
Every day I work on bringing more awareness into my life.
Still, the fear is in the lead, creating stagnation.
Making me think that I need the perfect conditions to actually change the conditions.
Four years after, I decide to live a life with no plans.
I want to explore asia and explore the world.
I quit my entire life and buy I one-way ticket to India.
The intense journey begins now.
Life is Beautiful!
I travel to so many places on 3 different continents.
I lived in silence in a buddhist temple meditating 14 hours a day.
I study and practice so many different things like tantra, reiki, taoism, all kinds of meditations and practical tools to expand our awareness.
I live in 9 different countries and meet people from over 70 nationalities.
They are all friendly and accepting me even with my poor english with a strong Spanish accent.
And finally, I felt so accepted!
I felt so much like being me, and really started to get in touch that inexhaustible inner power we all have within us.
And then I learned a big lesson
That it doesn’t matter anymore If I'm unaccepted by others. Because deep in my heart I accept myself.
From a place of full self-acceptance and self-awareness I start to reinvent myself and create a truly authentic and fulfilling life driven by love.
I decide that I want to help others. Others who despite their success are still looking for fulfilment and meaning, and are chasing all these things on the outside that leads to an endless chasing of more and more.
I want to help them look inside of them,
and learn that they have all what they need within them,
and if they could just learn to be more aware,
life will be completely transformed.
And since I made that decision, life became so beautiful.
I met the love of my life and got married.
I live surrounded by nature and tranquility.
I feel so accepted and comfortable with myself.
I feel fulfilled and authentically me.
And so now this is what I do. I've become Awareness Coach for High Performers.
I help them make their inner greatness shine, so they can create more freedom and fulfilment by becoming the best version of themselves.
And now I’m living back in Mallorca, and I no longer worried about being accepted by others. I have such self-acceptance now that I invite people into my home where I've already run over 60 retreats.
I work with business owners, entrepreneurs, leaders and wealthy people who are willing to create a positive impact in the world.
Therefore, the impact I'm creating with my coaching is exponential.
If deep down you know you can go really far away in your business and in your personal life, and you are aware that the only obstacle is YOU, we should have a conversation. Don't you think so?
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